February 16, 2013

The Absurdity of Games Part IV

Part 4: Spoilt Spoils

When I played the public good (potluck) game with the kids, it was designed to show them two things. While the game itself revolved around money and value and accruing it, the goal of the game was to demonstrate that A) good behavior has good rewards and B) that bad behavior has greater rewards. The concept of rewards is what is subjective to the player. Obviously, telling people they are playing a game they assume there would be winners and losers. Their idea of rewards would be reflected in what they considered to be "winning".

For most people, it seems fundamental that good behavior has good rewards. This is often very clear to some. Show up to work on time and you keep your job. Don't steal and you don't go to jail. Don't copy your homework and you actually understand the subject matter. Remain faithful and don't get an STD.

But recall that bad behavior often has greater rewards. Cheat on exams and you get a better grade. Pay a bribe and you avoid a fine. Exact bribes and get rich. Steal money from the state and buy a car. These are these are the very real situations that people deal with and face on a daily basis in Nampula.

Unfortunately, if your idea of "rewards" is based on money or salary or influence, this will drive the decisions you take to achieve your reward. If your reward is having a bigger house, you may steal money from your employer to buy said house. If your reward is a car, you may bribe an employer to get yourself a cushy state job with the perk of a car. If you reward is having lots of wives, you're going to stick it where it don't belong.

If your reward is doing the right thing, in Nampula that means losing. Losing because you won't always get into the right school, land the right job, buy the choisest piece of property, woo the right women. You lose by someone else's definition. Remember, in our potluck analogy, absolutely nobody was satisfied with being generous and having everybody else eat their steaks. They were angry and resentful.

Unfortunately for people's lives here there is a very thin line between winning and survival. Sometimes it is the difference between having a thatched roof or a tin roof, buying rice vs buying cornflower, eating beans or eating cabbage. Sometimes it is the difference between having a new car versus a used car. Having a house with a bathroom or using an outhouse. Other times it is having something or having nothing.

The point is that everybody defines the reward as having the most. Not just because they played simplistic game with me and I said so. But because absolutely everything I've seen proves it. Teachers selling (the allegedly free) grade school workbooks out of their homes. Pastors discovered to have an entire harem of women. Farmers uprooting their neighbors crops in the middle of the night.

However, you might notice that this is probably a universal trait. I could be in Mozambique or Mogadishu or Mongolia or Michigan and see people behaving and acting and coveting in the same way. The desire across the human spectrum is to have more and be more than your neighbor. In America, you'd be hard pressed to find somebody not actively involved in the grand old Pursuit of Happiness. But let me ask you, is the pursuit of happiness centered on healthy relationships with your coworkers or a healthy 401-k? Is it on watching your son's little league game or spending hundreds so that your kid is the best shortstop in the county? Is it sitting around the table with your family for dinner, or does each one grab a plate and leave to eat alone. We say it is about the pursuit of happiness and then pursue things that don't lead to real joy.

Key to understanding the pursuit is knowing what to pursuing. It is immaterial things, obedience, piety, godliness, brotherly love? Can you be rich and good at your job and still have these things? Absolutely, and as I've made clear, I'm not trying to judge Nampula as being worse because, objectively, you find this behavior all over the world. For better or for worse you can't find anybody that is not trying to improve their standard of living.

The three examples I mentioned earlier illustrate the lengths people go to in order to "win". Teachers selling (the allegedly free) grade school workbooks out of their homes. Pastors discovered to have an entire harem of women. Farmers uprooting their neighbors crops in the middle of the night. All are detestable actions, but one should stand out as a little different from the rest. Nope, not the teacher. Not even the pastor.

In Nampula, people view the idea of winning in a very binary fashion. You win, or you lose. There is no outcome where we both win. Therefore, if I can't win, I'm going to find a way for you to lose.

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